Hello All!
Today, I just wanted to talk about the term Perseverance. We're using that word a great deal in my 3rd grade classroom. This term has been used throughout my life and along my path. Every time I hit a door that wouldn't open right away, I kept the courage inside myself to keep trudging along. I had so many ideas and goals I saw for myself. I just couldn't exactly pinpoint what my purpose was right away. I wanted to try any and every opportunity. I used to be so frustrated with myself because I knew I was talented and creative, I just didn't feel like I was aligned completely.
For instance, I love design and art. My dream job in my early 20's was to work at The Merchandise Mart in a grand showroom like Holly Hunt or Waterworks Design firm. I dreamt I was in some magical Marketing position working around top interior designers showcasing the newest materials and most coveted designs. In reality, I worked as an intern at The Merchandise Mart, working completely for free only to receive a measly certificate. I was sadly turned down by any dream job. At the end of my wishful internship, I thought networking my way around the office would help me a bit. I met with the CEO of Merchandise Mart Properties, telling me that the economic downturn of 2008 caused a major freeze in hiring anyone for a long sustained period of time. I felt defeated, and walked home in disappointment. But, I never did give up. While in Chicago, I tried and tried to "make" my career happen.
As I looked back, I don't feel like a fool or regret any of my choices. I want to pat myself on the back and give myself a gold star. I took an unpaid job and used my networking skills to market my abilities and meet with many busy executives. During that difficult time, I never gave up on myself. I never blamed anyone or sulked. I moved on.
Yes, that door didn't open for me, but others did. As I looked back, all those experiences made me, Kristen. I remember my persistence in that time period in my life. That made me strong. So, I didn't fail, I persevered. To me, that shows my strong character. Sometimes doors aren't meant to be opened in our lives. We have to turn around and look for the door that's right for each one of us. If you haven't found what your looking for, keep knocking until you find the right one for you.
Stay strong!
